If you want to recognise how to take a woman to bed on only your second date with her, this easy to use DATING ADVICE is for you.
The reason why I say second date and not original date is important…
I have found out the hard way that if you sleep with a woman on your initial date, she have a tendancy to see you as “just somebody to have sex with” and you will have trouble getting her to meet you again.
Now, I’m going to presume that you want to see the woman again (after you have had sex with her for the original time) – so that is why I commend aiming for sex on the SECOND DATE.
By waiting until the second date, you show the woman that you are mesmerized in her for more than just her body and sex. And because of this she will RESPECT you, which is critical if you want to see her again.
So, introduction over – let’s get into…
How To Take A Woman To Bed On Your Second Date And Make Sure That You See Her Again
Make the original date something very simple.
Coffee at a local coffee shop is perfect. The primary date is meant to be a short date (think 20 to 60 minutes) and it is intent is actually just to see if you get on with the woman sufficient to want to see her for a longer amount of time of time.
Providing you do still like her and want to get to recognise her better after the firstborn date, here is how to work the second date…
On the second date, intention to spend time at a number of DIFFERENT VENUES because this builds trust, rapport and familiarity (it’ll make her feel like she’s known you for longer than she has).
A great example would be to meet the woman at a restaurant at 6pm and have dinner. After dinner, progression to a bar and have a couple of drinks at 8pm.
At 9.30pm tell her that you think the two of you ought to go on an evening walk for 15 minutes because it’s “a nice evening and it’s still warm”.
At 9.45pm tell her that she may come back to your place for quick drink. Tell her that she may only stay for a few minutes even though because you have to get up early for work the next day.
This line works in truth well as it stops the woman from thinking that you want anything more than just a quick drink.
Do not KISS the woman until you take her back to your place (things work way better this way, for reasons that I will talk about another time. For now – just go with it).
When you get back to your place, make the drink, put on numerous relaxing music and if the vibe is right – things will have to naturally go to the bedroom. When I say “naturally”, plainly you have to make it happen.
But, if the woman is attracted to you and feels comfortable with you (and she wouldn’t be in your house if she didn’t)… the BEDROOM is where things will closely unquestionably go and is where she wants things to go.
Now, two final points that are VERY IMPORTANT if you want to see her again…
1. Give Her Good Sex
It doesn’t have to be the best sex ever (and it in all probability won’t be because it’s your primary time with this peculiar woman), but you do need to show her that you know what you are doing.
Use The Deep Spot Method orgasm technique on her to show her that you actually know how to make her vagina feel good. (It will be improbable than any former man will have touched her like this, so you’ll in truth make an impression).
If you may give her an orgasm this basi time you have sex with her – even better.
2. Call Her The Next Day
Seriously, you have to call her the very next day after you have had sex with her for the primary time. If you don’t, you will probably never see her again.
And NO – a text or email is not the same as a call!
The bottom line is that if you give her GOOD SEX and then CALL HER the next day – you will see her again. If you don’t do those two things, you almost unquestionably won’t see her again.
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Some things in the book are more than a bit too coincidental and there’s melodrama enough for three books, but this is still a fun, summer thriller. I am glad I read it and think that some people that are bummed on Patterson might enjoy this book more than some of his more recent ones. Try a sample, and I think this book will hook you from the start as it did me. It’s so easy to get caught up and swept away before you know it.
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